Over the years as a Minnesota-based boudoir photographer, I’ve encountered a lot of unfortunate resources about “how to prepare for a boudoir session.” It’s common for new clients to wonder how to best prep for their upcoming photoshoot, and yet too often the dominant messaging about boudoir reinforces toxic beauty and harmful diet culture standards that tempt us to believe we have to change in order to be “photo ready” and beautiful. This is a really hurtful misconception about boudoir, and it is one I am striving to change.
Read MoreLooking back, I am inspired by the breadth and depth of moods and styles that this year has held across the dozens of sessions I’ve photographed in my studio and in gorgeous outdoor spaces. Some sessions felt super glamorous and dramatic; some felt very artful or whimsical; some exuded an effortless, everyday energy; some held profound gentleness; some captured inspiring strength; some were bursting with joy, vibrancy, and color; some felt like a peaceful, self-loving exhale; and many times a single session held a multitude of these moods.
Read MoreIn the year leading up to her photoshoot, E’s life had held multitudes – including moments of joy and challenging unexpectedness – and she wanted her boudoir session to capture the breadth of who she is now and who she is becoming, all through the lens of self-compassion. It felt extra fitting to mark her milestone birthday with a day devoted to gentleness, reflection, and self-care.
Read MoreK went into her boudoir session with the primary intention of doing something beautiful just for herself. She envisioned portraits that captured various aspects of her personality – some romantic, some elegant, some strong and dramatic, and some soft and effortless – and she wanted all of the portraits to have a strong undercurrent of self-love.
Read MoreA wanted her boudoir session to balance her love of artful boudoir portraits with her vibrant, creative energy. She envisioned portraits that felt at once strong and poised, playful and serene. She was excited for this session to capture the well of confidence she has come to fill within herself and to celebrate the mosaic of styles she feels drawn to in this season of life. A also felt delighted to incorporate two different flower bouquets into her session. I helped with her wardrobe planning for this session, choosing three looks that complemented the colors and textures of the bouquets.
Read MoreIn a culture of insurmountable beauty standards, many of us have been trained to think in pretty polarizing ways about what is or is not okay with our bodies, including body hair. So many of my clients wonder whether or not to remove body hair before their boudoir session, and too often I think the hesitation comes not from personal preference but from fear of how the presence or absence of body hair will be perceived.
Read MoreM was in an exciting season of life where she felt able to see and savor the self-compassion she had worked hard to cultivate over the years. She wanted her photoshoot to celebrate the intentionality she had poured into building a life full of self-acceptance. M envisioned a boudoir session that felt candid, confident, effortless, and everyday.
Read MoreThis fall, I invited clients to write a love letter to themselves and then created short reels with clients reading their words aloud “in their own voice,” and I’m thrilled to be sharing all six of those virtual love letters here! May their stories bring you strength, solidarity, and a seed of brave inspiration to encourage you on your self-love journey.
Read MorePoppins had been dreaming about doing an outdoor boudoir session for a long time, saving up and waiting for the right moment. This year, Poppins reached a point where she felt really proud of her body-positivity journey, and she began exploring an intentional practice of doing special things just for herself. She decided an outdoor boudoir session at sunset would be the perfect way to celebrate herself and mark her progress on the lifelong journey of cultivating self-love.
Read MoreK wanted to devote one of her boudoir outfits to documenting and celebrating her upcoming wedding, so she wore a gorgeous white robe and pj set – which was made from her mom’s wedding dress! She felt beautiful wearing this sentimental, heirloom piece, and her portraits feel elegant, romantic, poised, and effortless.
Read MoreM booked her boudoir session to mark an important turning point in her life. After navigating a season of flux where she felt stretched in many directions, she arrived at a calmer chapter that allowed her to pause, exhale, and reconnect with her heart and body. She asked herself “what is something I can do that’s just for me?” and immediately boudoir came to mind.
Read MoreAfterwards, Greta shared such beautiful reflections on the impact of her boudoir session. “Validation, love, vulnerability, hope, and generosity are the words I keep coming back to every time I try to turn my thoughts about my session into words… I came in ready to celebrate my upcoming wedding and get a surprise gift for my fiance and instead, I received such an unexpected and wonderful gift, and it will bring me joy for the rest of my life.
Read MoreThe vision for A’s session – organic, connected to nature, full of confident, feminine, and self-loving energy – shaped her outfit choices. When A arrived, we laid out a bunch of wardrobe options on a big table inside the cabin, and I helped her choose three final outfits. A began the session wearing an olive green cotton bralette and high waisted bottoms, which felt simple, natural, and tied in well with the forest setting.
Read MoreWhile my studio sessions have a number of amenities readily available (including my kitchenette, well-stocked toiletry cabinet, and studio layering wardrobe), the amenities accessible for your outdoor session can really vary based on the location, so it’s more important to plan ahead for these sessions. Based on the many outdoor boudoir sessions I’ve photographed and feedback from clients, I’ve made a packing list with the top 10 most essential items to bring for your next outdoor boudoir adventure!
Read MoreB had been dreaming about doing a boudoir session for a long time, so it felt incredibly exciting to get to plan her much awaited session together. B was excited to take a day all for herself and create art that captured her beauty and strength. In her words, she felt excited to set aside time “to see myself as beautiful.”
Read MoreIn addition to waiting for the right photographer, A had also been waiting for the right life moment to do boudoir. During our planning session, A shared how a younger version of herself had been waiting for a moment where she looked and felt “enough,” yet she realized the unhelpfulness in that framework and began asking herself: why not now? Looking for the enoughness already in her life, A recognized how celebratory this season of life has felt, especially as she awaits her wedding later this year. She decided boudoir would be a beautiful way to document how she looks and feels right here, right now.
Read MorePriya brought so much vision, joy, and energy into her photoshoot. She wanted her portraits to feel confident and strong– reflecting the authentic groundedness she felt in this season of life. Priya is a naturally upbeat person, and she wanted her playfulness and levity to shine through. She also wanted to balance this levity with portraits that felt sensual, sexy, and artful.
Read MoreSo many of my clients tell me they feel like they “should” wear a certain style of clothing during their boudoir session–like a matching bra and underwear set or lacy lingerie– but they don’t actually want to. Beneath this “should” is the misconception that something is or is not boudoir. The truth is, boudoir in my studio is all about you, so you get to decide what is or is not boudoir! My biggest advice is that you wear something that looks and feels like you.
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